5 years since we talked…

Today makes 5 years since we talked last time... is still so surreal that you aren't here... I miss you so much... I love you as much, or even more, than I loved you 5 years ago... Tomorrow you will be gone for longer than the time we were together, and that is bothering me so much... turning everything even harder... I am trying to keep busy... I have a full day tomorrow with work events... I don't want to think in what happened 5 years ago tomorrow... is too painful... I wish you were here... so many things happened these last 5 years... Are you proud of me babe? Every time I achive something you are the first person in my mind... I want to much to share all with you... but you aren't here anymore... and is so painful... I know you didn't believe, but I do, so I went to the church today to light a candel for you... It was so peaceful there... I love you meu amor...

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